Love isn't blind; it just only sees what matters. - William Curry -

Whenever we are in love we lose individual consciousness. We merge with the object of our affection as if we don’t exist. We get a certain kind of high, as if we have taken drugs.

But the problem about falling in love is that it doesn’t lasts, just like a psychedelic drug trip. WE FALL OUT OF LOVE. Our inner individual personalities will soon emerge and we soon lose that ecstatic feeling. Problem is, some fall out of love faster than the others. And that’s when heartache and heartbreak occurs. And that is why it is wise not to completely lose oneself to someone. It is probably okay to let your partner have some sort of influence over you, after all, what boyfriends and girlfriends are for, but not to the point where he or she is already running your life. Remember to keep something for yourself.

NOTHING WRONG SUBMITTING YOURSELF TO YOUR MAN. BUT, BUT ONLY IF HE IS WORTH SUBMITTING TO.

If he gives you space, if he lets you be you, if he lets you follow your dreams, then, give him your submission.

But when he treats you like his possession, like a puppet, like a dummy, like a robot who follows his every command, then he’s not worth your submission, let alone your love!

M. Scott Peck/Road Less Traveled